Wooing a lady is both an act and an art. It requires skill and tact. There are several reasons why a man may decide to woo a lady. It could be to start a friendship or a relationship, to improve his skill at  talking to a lady and perhaps, to become romantically involved with her. Whatever  your reason for wooing a lady, it is better to do it  right. So, here are seven tips on how to woo a lady.

1. Develop Friendship With Her   

One of the best methods of wooing a lady is through friendship. Get close to her by becoming her friend. This becomes easier if both of you work in the same organization, in the same academic environment or you both attend the same worship centre. Find every reason to be near her. Try to engage her in a general conversation without spilling the beans about your interest in her. Make her feel safe and secure talking with you and be deliberately interested in her welfare without being nosy about it. Allow her to tell you about herself at her own pace. When you have become her friend to a reasonable extent, then you can tell her how you feel about her.

2. Don’t Appear  Desperate 

When  you have told her your interest, you should give her some space to process her mind regarding your proposal. When a man appears too desperate after talking to a lady, it can send the wrong signal to her. Instead of getting a favourable response from  her,  you get a cold response. When you are genuinely interested in a lady, don’t be desperate about it. If the lady gives you her phone number, that is not the time to be dialing her number every now and again. When you do this, you could turn her off.

3. Give Her Some Time

Women like to test the sincerity of  men by playing too hard to get. When you approach a lady and you have made your intentions known to her in clear and unambiguous terms, don’t expect her to say yes to you immediately. She will need some time to think about it. So, while she is doing this, don’t bother her with calls, asking her to say yes to you. Make your contact with her as slim as possible but not scarce. This is because if you create  too much distance, the tendency that she will forget about you is huge.

4. Avoid Professing Love On Your First Date.

Now that the lady has agreed to go on a date with you. It will be wrong to profess  love to her on your first date, knowing fully well that you have only just met her. Understand that there is no such thing as love at first sight because love takes time to grow. The more you both engage in meaningful conversations and go out on dates, the more the interest develops into love.

5. Imprint Your Face In Her Mind

To do this, you need to take notice of the things she likes, for example her best food, best colour or the kind of music she listens to. Consciously take her to a restaurant, order her best meal and request her favorite music be played. This will make her feel really special. When you constantly do this, you will imprint your face in your mind and she will constantly think about you.

6. Make Her Laugh

Women are naturally drawn to men who  make them laugh. Marilyn Monroe once said ‘If you make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything’. This is so true, coming from a woman. Make the lady laugh every time and see if she will not long to see you again.

7. Compliment Her

You will make a woman feel good about herself when you tell her she is beautiful or you comment on her dress or her hairstyle. When you take notice of little details such as these, you amplify the lady’s interest in you.

In conclusion, the outcome of wooing a lady should, if properly done, kickstart a meaningful friendship or relationship. Following the above mentioned tips will give you a special place in a woman’s heart.

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