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Challenging the Idea of Toxic Masculinity

2023-08-01T16:01:42+00:00

By Maxwell Orah

Toxic masculinity has become a hotly debated topic in recent years. It refers to the damaging expectations and preconceptions that are placed on men, which frequently have negative effects on both individuals and society as a whole. But it’s critical to refute this idea and advance gender roles that enable men to express their true selves and escape the confines of toxic masculinity.The belief that males must be powerful, aggressive and heartless is perpetuated by toxic masculinity, which discourages sensitivity and empathy. Men are under pressure to comply due to this limited notion of masculinity, which stifles their originality and emotional health. Increased rates of substance misuse, mental health issues, and strained relationships will be the consequences of toxic masculinity.In order to combat it, men should be encouraged to develop their emotional intelligence. Men’s emotional awareness and self-expression are cultivated when they are encouraged. Society must understand that emotional maturity and strength are not signs of weakness.Frequently, toxic masculinity feeds into negative gender stereotypes. Men must deliberately reject and unlearn the damaging behaviors and attitudes that support a patriarchal culture in order to challenge these stereotypes. In the struggle for gender parity, males should work to support women’s rights and promote inclusivity.Toxic norms must be fought by promoting positive male role models that represent healthy masculinity. Men who prioritize empathy, respect, and equality should be celebrated because they can inspire and direct others. We cultivate a society that supports various manifestations of masculinity by recognizing men who reject toxic masculinity.

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Education and awareness about toxic masculinity must begin at a young age. Dismantling toxic gender norms requires teaching boys about consent, healthy relationships, and emotional expression. We can enable young boys to reject toxic masculinity and embrace healthier options by creating an environment that values critical thinking and open discussion.Promoting healthy forms of masculinity and combating toxic masculinity both require nurturing male fragility. For far too long, males have been subjected to rigorous social standards that call for emotional stoicism and discourage vulnerability as a sign of frailty. But accepting vulnerability enables guys to develop emotional intelligence and build stronger relationships. It is crucial to reframe strength as the fortitude to embrace vulnerability rather than as the absence of vulnerability. In order to empower men to have more satisfying lives, cultivate mental and emotional health, and build stronger, more compassionate relationships, we must nurture male vulnerability.Building strong support networks is essential to fostering masculine vulnerability. Due to the stigma associated with vulnerability, men may encounter particular difficulties when attempting to get emotional help. Support groups, counseling services, and mentorship programs designed especially for guys can be crucial in encouraging positive masculinity. Men are more inclined to seek assistance during difficult situations when they feel supported, which lowers the likelihood of emotional repression and its negative implications. Encouragement of support networks is advantageous to both individual males and the development of a kind and accepting society that values the mental and emotional well-being of all of its citizens.For the sake of building a society that is fair and more inclusive, toxic masculinity must be challenged. To reimagine masculinity and advance gender norms that support men in embracing their individuality, feelings, and true selves, we must work together. By breaking free from the constraints of toxic masculinity, we can build a world where all individuals, regardless of gender, can thrive and live fulfilling lives.

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Maxwell Orah

A graduate of English with experience in English, creative writing and tutorial. I had worked as an English teacher for Essence international School, Damaturu (NYSC) where I have been involved in writing reports, teaching and coordinating the staff and students. I am presently working at God's Blessing Comprehensive College, Ibadan as a Literature teacher. The work has also been very exciting and challenging.