9 Creative Ways To Develop Intimacy With Your Wife

2024-06-20T00:36:17+00:00

By Julius

Intimacy is one of the major pillars in marriage. However, most couples live like intimate strangers because the spark in their marriage is gone. Several reasons may be responsible for the lack of intimacy among couples. However, our drive today will be centred around creative ways a man can be intimate with his wife. Intimacy may not necessarily be the sexual act, but the things you do to your wife that can lead to sexual intimacy. So, here are nine creative ways to be intimate with your wife.

Profess Your Love With Actions

One creative way to be intimate with your wife is your declaration of love for her. Women need to be reminded how much they are loved. They need to hear this always. Moreover, you need to match your confessions with actions like being genuinely interested in her welfare and making efforts to help her when the need arises. 2. Turn Her On You can become intimate with your wife by turning her on even before the sexual act. Writing love notes and putting it in strategic places where she can easily see it is one of the ways to turn her on. You can as well gift her a beautiful dress, a nice shoe and then arrange it neatly among her clothing or shoe rack. 3. Defend Her If you want to be really intimate with your wife, then you need to defend her. This does not mean that you should defend her even when she is wrong. What this means is that you should never allow any of your family members insult her.

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4. Compliment Her Women are like machines that need to be ignited before they can start running. One of the ways to achieve this is by complimenting her. You can do this by texting her about how beautiful she looked in her dress or how you can’t wait to have her in your arms. This will surely set her in the mood. 5. Explore Creative Methods You should explore creative methods in pleasing your wife sexually. Using old methods can make sex less enjoyable. Adopt a romantic atmosphere of lighting candles, arranging flowers to form the shape of love with romantic music playing in the background. Let her come to meet this atmosphere and you would have succeeded in putting her in the mood. You as well take her out on a date. This is not only limited to when it is her birthday or during Valentine’s Day. 6. Give Her The Way She Wants It Most wives are sometimes shy to express how they want their husbands to handle them during sexual intimacy. You need to understand those spots that turn her wild during sexual intimacy. You can only arrive at this by careful observation and when you get the hint, give it to her the way she wants it. 7. Be Generous With Your Money If men know how to make money, women surely know how to spend it. You should be generous with your money to your wife. This is one sure way to be intimate with her. Intentionally put some money in her purse or leave some in your trouser pocket especially if she is the one doing your laundry. She will certainly go through the pockets. Whether or not she reports the find, settle it in your mind that it is hers in the first place.