
8 Reasons People Marry the Wrong Person
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- It may create a false sense of commitment and depth.
- It may block you from processing your feelings.
- It may lead to overlooking problems that should not be overlooked.
- You don’t feel emotionally safe.
- You have to monitor what you say.
- You walk on eggshells around this person.
- You don’t feel relaxed and don’t feel you can be yourself.
- The person is demanding, controlling, or communicates with anger and criticism.
- Do I respect and admire this person?
- Do I trust this person in every way and feel I can rely on his or her judgment?
- Do I feel totally safe with this person (like I feel with my best friend)?
- Do I truly care about this person and have a desire to give to him or her?
- Are we open and honest with each other about our feelings and opinions?
- We can talk openly and honestly about our feelings
- We listen to each other and make it safe for each other to express ourselves.
- There is no defensiveness
- We trust that together we can resolve problems
- We have confidence in ourselves that we can repair our breakdowns
- We work well together; we’re a good team
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